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Song choice is chef’s kiss.
Except I expect praise so I also offer it. Idc if I’m doing the bare minimum; I’m doing it well.
Thats how we work too. Both have ADHD so the positive reinforcement is awesome. Now every time I do housework I have a happy little smile and a thank you already in my inner dialogue.
What kind of praises should people do? I image words of affirmation, but also some gifts like flowers.
Are there other praises I can do?
@@lesserstatusI tell my roommate “thank you for doing {completed chore}” whenever they do it. And they do the same for me. I agreed to always cook and they always thank me for it regardless.
It doesn’t have to be over the top, but gratitude goes far!
Amen
Stop praising women for being independent financially, study and work hard, something men have always been doing.
How does it sound….. ?????
Who’s praising women for that? If anything, people are hating it because those who are independent can’t be financially controlled
@@JanTsCoL26
And who is praising men for cleaning up? No one around me.
women were actively prevented from doing those things BY men
@@jodolski seems like your lived experience is different from mine
Yep as a woman I agree that’s definitely the tone I got from this post. Let’s just appreciate when people make an effort of any kind, especially for their loved ones.
Amen! I am so tired of this when it come to keeping a home or child rearing. This 2024 not the 1950s. I think there is a saying about just because something is widely accepted, it doesn’t make it right. We have to stop this before is continues for another 50+ years.
The only reason I would praise a man for doing housework is if I’m trying to use reserve psychology in an effort to get him to feel like he’s appreciated so he can in turn do more housework. I’ve learned that you got to make men feel appreciated to get more out of them.
Sounds like weaponized incompetence. Try trading in the deficient man for one who acts like a real partner and will do housework without Pavlovian conditioning
I want to thank people when they do something for me. And I’m sure if I do they will want to do more for me
Rarely as a lot of people think gracing you with their presence and saying thanks is all the reciprocation needed. I don’t want thanks, I want to not to clean up after other lazy adults.
Absolutely, and teach your sons to cook and clean the home the same way you teach your daughters. My son can cook, do laundry, sew, and clean the home as well as me. Period.
that‘s what school is for
@@TheMntnG idk what school you went to but they teach none of those things in public schools. especially laundry or cleaning lol
@@therealai777
not laundry but in swiss schools cooking is a subject and grocery shopping and cleaning is part if it. also woodworking, sewing, and other house economics
I get what this is TRYING to get at but I think it misses the mark. The world in general (and regardless of gender) doesn’t need less praise and goodness put into it. If anything we should encourage people to give MORE praise to EVERYONE and to remember to not overlook the efforts of anyone. If my server at a restaurant is doing their expected job (doesn’t even have to be above and beyond) I will still thank and praise them because it’s kind to do and I hope to bring more kindness into the world. Gratitude, growth, and giving, makes for a fulfilled life. ❤
Oh god…not this channel too….smh
If I have to do half the housework, I get to decorate half the house.
Do it! I think a lot of people would actually appreciate not having to do the whole thing. I would anyways.. or to mutually agree on things and truly make it a living space that speaks to all living in it.
This is why I only date (former) chefs 😂 they’re hot and they know their place is in the kitchen 🤷🏽♀️
I don’t even know who praises men for housekeeping and which women actually keep a clean house. Barely see either things so stop perpetuating dumb narratives.
The right answer is not to stop praising men but to praise them with the same amount that women get. It’s always great to hear someone praising you for your work quality.
Song choice 💯
Alternatively: praise men, women and nb folks equally! Praise is a great encouragement and we should do it more, not less!
Can we just move to post genderism now pls cos that’s where we’re supposed to be heading? Some of this channel’s shorts are completely whack and totally fly in the face of the long form content imo.
I’m not trying to be a hater at all, i think this channel is extremely empowering, but this post sounds like a very petty rant and kinda irrelevant. How about pushing a conversation towards housework being funded via a universal basic income so that whoever chooses to manage a household can afford to live a dignified life?
The economic game we’re playing has been set up to divide us and keep wealth and power in as few hands as possible and we need to look for another way that doesn’t leave people behind
I have to disagree. I, as a man, appreciate a little praise every now and then, but have always heaped praise on my significant for the housework they have done. I believe that in a good healthy relationship both sides should be praised and not taken for granted.
I also don’t believe it is about the amount of housework either, it is about communicating with each other on what is an equitable division of labor all the way around.
I have played the roll of the working spouse, supporting my partner while they went to college from home with me working two jobs. I have also been recovering from a severe injury and unable to do as much as I wanted. In both situations I praised my significant other and that was reciprocated, as it should be.
This is atrocious advice. The best way to motivate anyone to do anything positive is to praise them for doing it. Why would you NOT want to praise someone for doing something positive?
Second, men have no collective historical burden for doing the housework that their forefathers skipped out on. This type of messaging just makes you seem bitter about a past you didn’t experience.
Sorry you don’t get enough praise for your hard work. Even if it is “the bare minimum” everybody deserves appreciation for their contribution.