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That’s a good idea actually. And having flexibility is so important too bc life happens
Great video to share, very practical
The tart is straight on the table?
First thing I noticed too.
Peter The Horse Is Here
This is me realizing I don’t know any Peter’s (this is a series of pointless words from me😊)
omg where can I find a man like this who is willing/wanting to have a spreadsheet
Put it out into the universe and see what happens!
I think most healthy couples are compatible enough with each other that they really don’t need one?
@alexbennet4195 I don’t think structure is a sign of a dysfunctional relationship 🤷🏻♀️ folks need different things and that’s not a problem, you just gotta find folks whose wants and needs jive with yours
(And also a lot of folks who are neurodivergent in a variety of ways gravitate more towards this kind of thing, so just cos it’s not for you doesn’t mean it’s not healthy, or not normal in other communities)
@@alexbennet4195 Nope. The “compatibility” you are talking about is the woman doing most of the work and both seeing this as normal because that`s how nearly everybody was raised.
@@anthill1510 come on, this isn’t the 1950s lol, most men do actually do housework
@2:51:29 Kayla, you got me tearing up. This is the same situation that I am in with my dad. Some people are too emotionally immature to form closer, meaningful relationships, I tried with my dad and it either got thrown back in my face or he could never understand me. At 29, I accept that my relationship with my dad will always be surface level, and instead of fighting for closeness that would be for nothing, I just accept and get peace from knowing this is the best it can be.
a spreadsheet? super crazy computer addicted
This is exactly the Valentine’s Day content I needed ❤ truly romantic
Love that you’ve found a suitable match to do this with. Not at all jealous 😅😅😅😭
My husband and I manage our household chores in this way too, with flexibility as needed, works for us but may not for others.
You have a copy we can download as a rough draft? Lol but for real
Really great system! I think the owning your chores is really important and helpful! My husband and I also have set chores we’re responsible for that never change (unless previously discussed) and it is really to not have to think about what is on his list. Occasionally we have to remind each other but it doesn’t feel like nagging because we know we’re responsible for it. It also opens up a really easy way to do something nice for the other person… sometimes my husband will fold a load of laundry or I’ll load the dishwasher. It feels like a treat and we’re both super thankful:)
My partner has adhd and is still waiting to be given medication (living in the Netherlands theres a system to get diagnosed and given meds that takes a while). Because of the adhd and how his brain works, reminding him is needed to get him to do thing, but we’ve accounted for that by understanding that the mental load I take to follow what needs to be done and asking for things is also considered a chore and this he ends up doing more work to counteract that. Beyond that for expenses we buy food separately because we eat quite differently, but for household stuff we take turns buying. We’ve only been living together about a month but this is working so far. He is very very good about doing everything once told and I don’t feel overwhelmed because I end up doing about equal work when we account for the following I do. So far so good!